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Lost and Then Found: Overcoming a Long-Held Fear

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Baby Boomers, Transformation, Travel

I hate getting lost. The fear of getting lost is one of those fears that I have held for as long as I can remember. Maybe it was all those fairy tales I used to read as a child, or over protective parents (I’m sure a therapist would have fun helping me sort this one out!) but the fear of getting lost is one of the ‘biggie’ fears for me. At least it was, until this past weekend….

Hamilton Ontario, source: John Piercy, Flickr

Hamilton Ontario, source: John Piercy, Flickr

There is an exhibit on at the Art Gallery of Hamilton (that’s Hamilton, Ontario), that I really wanted to see. The ‘VisiaItalia’ exhibit gathered Italian Renaissance Art from galleries across Canada to put on a rather impressive display. So my husband and I headed down to Burlington to pick up my daughter and son-in-law and off to Hamilton we went. Fortunately my husband was driving. We had never driven to the Art Gallery of Hamilton before, so to make sure there were no problems getting there I brought the GPS (always trust the GPS — well most of the time!!), printed out maps and directions from Mapquest, and had one of those yellow covered map books, and we still got lost. In fact, we ended up in the east side on Hamilton when we wanted to be an the west side of Hamilton.

Now, don’t get me wrong, I love Hamilton, Ontario. I think it is a great city and would have no problems living there. Its got some stunning attractions – a great waterfront, numerous waterfalls, urban walking trails, great parks, super sports teams (except for an NHL team!!), a castle, a cute downtown area, beautiful houses, fantastic malls and shopping areas, a Botanical Garden that rivals the best in the world, and a thriving arts and culture scene.

There is one thing about Hamilton, however, that sends the chill of fear down my spine every time I think of driving there.

Every time I drive to Hamilton I get lost. In fact, everyone I know gets lost driving in or through Hamilton. This is a city that both a GPS and Mapquest have difficulties sorting out – in fact it was following Mapquest’s directions that landed us in the wrong side of Hamilton (we should have trusted the GPS!!).

Hamilton is a city that constantly challenges my sense of direction – and generally wins. I’m not exactly sure why this happens. Maybe its because Hamilton is located south of Lake Ontario, and I’m used to being north of the Lake. This tends to be somewhat disorienting. Or maybe its all those one way streets throughout the downtown and surrounding areas. One wrong turn and you’re lost. Two wrong turns in a row and you are really lost.

Whatever the reason, I’ve managed to see more of Hamilton from dealing with being lost than I would have otherwise – and I’ve enjoyed what I’ve seen. Being lost provided us with a very pleasant drive through some really pretty parts of Hamilton this past weekend. We finally started trusting the GPS and, despite the fact that it seemed to be taking us in the wrong direction, it eventually led us to exactly where we wanted to be.

And that’s when it hit me – being lost isn’t always a bad thing. It’s not something to always be fearful of.

As long as you have your Plan B and are prepared to trust your sense of direction, or trust your maps, or trust your GPS, or trust that you will ask for directions, then being lost can be a good thing. Being lost gives you a chance to explore and to discover, and that can be exciting.

So, how do you deal with the thought of getting lost? Is it one of your fears? Or do you enjoy the challenge and excitement of being lost?

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Alternative Housing for an Alternative Lifestyle

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Alternative Lifestyles, Baby Boomers, Lifestyle Design Skills, Location Independent Professionals

quebeccitystreetIf you are someone who is interested in enjoying the benefits of extended travel, but don’t want to give up the benefits of having a ‘home-base’ then there is an alternative housing style that might be of interest to you – cohousing.

Cohousing is not the same as co-operatives, where apartment buildings are owned by the residents who have their own individual apartments or houses.

Cohousing is more like a cross between a commune and a co-op.  It’s like a traditional village that is owned by its residents, only not quite.

With co-housing a group of individuals get together, buy a property and either renovate or build to suit their purposes. Every individual or family has a private apartment or house in the village that they use as their space. They also share common spaces, facilities and amenities.

Shared spaces, facilities and amenities could be a children’s playground, guest rooms, a fully equipped office, workshops, gardens/farms, arts and crafts studios – basically whatever the group decides it wants to have (as long as it’s legal :-) ).

Cohousing residents share responsibilities for planning, designing, managing, maintaining and participating in the day-to-day running of the development.  The residents become part of a sustainable, working community. A community where everyone knows everyone else and supports the other residents.

For location independent professionals and ageless nomads this type of lifestyle and housing design offers a number of benefits:

  • you don’t have to worry about your home when you are away traveling;
  • you could become part of a cohousing group that was formed around traveling so your non-traveling times would be spent surrounded by people who shared your passion and understood your lifestyle;
  • as a location independent professional, a cohousing community built around creativity or small business development could provide unlimited support and energy to your lifestyle. There is an Art Cohousing Community in Rome, Italy (http://www.artcohousing.com/) that seems to be offering units for long- or short-term rentals to artists interested in developing their talents (the site is in Italian and the Google English translation is a bit rough);
  • cohousing units can be ‘house swapped’ providing great opportunities for you to live in other communities; etc.

For Baby Boomers, the advantages to living in a cohousing community include:

  • you don’t have to worry about your home when you are away traveling;
  • house swapping your cohousing unit with someone from another cohousing community is a great way to travel and explore other countries without feeling lonely or isolated;
  • being part of a community of individuals who share your interests or hobbies, without being limited to just retirement villages. Although there are some cohousing communities that are age-specific, most cohousing communities are inter-generational;
  • you have community support as you age;
  • you could reduce your living expenses. Shared items, like laundry facilities, vehicles, RVs, sporting and fitness equipment, hobby supplies, business equipment and expertise, etc., can help reduce costs; etc.

The cohousing model is a recent phenomenon, with the first cohousing community being built in Denmark in 1972. In North America the first cohousing community didn’t occur until 1988.  According to the Canadian Cohousing Network, there are currently only roughly 130 cohousing communities scattered throughout North America, with most Canadian cohousing communities located in British Columbia. However, another 120 are currently in various stages of development and the movement is predicted to gain in popularity over the next 10 or so years.

More information on cohousing can be obtained from:

  1. The Canadian Cohousing Network, http://www.cohousing.ca
  2. The Cohousing Association of the United States, http://www.cohousing.org
  3. The UK Cohousing Network, http://www.cohousing.org.uk/
  4. The Fellowship for Intentional Communities, http://www.ic.org/

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